About the author. Josh Benner is a writer in Chicago, Illinois who typically writes about current events, Christianity, sports, and politics. He is currently working on a Master of Divinity degree at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School.
Infant in iconic photo would have turned 18 today; story behind the picture
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27 responses to “Infant in iconic photo would have turned 18 today; story behind the picture”
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The beginning of May following this horrific event, my daughter was born. We named her Baylee in rememberance of a child we had never met with parents we have never known. She is the busiest person I know, filling all her free time doing something for others. I am sure her namesake would be proud.
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thank you for sharing,. Nice gesture.
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I’m pregnant and teary-eyed, reading this… I live in Tulsa, and was 17 when it happened. That photo is still devastating to see, and if I never saw it again, I’d remember just what it looked like, for the rest of my life.
I always thought it was even worse that Baylee had just celebrated her 1st birthday… A celebration of life, and the next day, the tragic circumstance of death.
Well, tomorrow is my youngest child’s 1st birthday—a girl—and that just makes this more somber for me… Life is precious.
Thanks for the article.
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Thanks so much for sharing Debra. And thanks for reading. It’s fascinating to see how deeply that picture impacted so many people and how so many of us remember little Baylee all these years later.
Happy birthday to your daughter! (she shares a birthday with my sister).
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I moved to Oklahoma City shortly after the bombing, where I gave birth to the first of three children. My youngest, and only girl, is also a Baylee. God bless the families of these victims. They have endured so much.
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thanks for reading and for sharing.
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So touching.. Had tears in my eyes while reading this. Baylee and the others will forever be remembered..
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thank you so much. all these years later, it’s tough not to think about what might have been. and unfortunately now, a similar horror is a reality for 20 other families.
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Hi Josh, this morning, 2 days after the Sandy Hook shootings, I was thinking about Oklahoma City. At the time I was a federal employee, worked in the federal building in Cleveland,Oh and had a 2 yr. old daughter on the wait list for the daycare in our federal building. All I could think was how much easier life would be once a spot became available in the daycare in the building I worked. I was conducting an investigative operation at a chicken processing plant who had knowingly hired illegal workers that morning. There was a tv in an office and Peter Jennings was reporting that there was a credit union and a daycare in the building. That’s all I heard, and I knew immediately that something involving a federal building had occurred. As the events unfolded, so did this picture and the story behind it. Namely that Baylee and her family celebrated her 1st birthday the day before this horror. Because my only child was a year older than Baylee this photo was something I could not get out of my mind. I could not stop thinking about this child, her mother, and the pieces of toys and shoes found in the aftermath. I started to visualize my daughter as the child in the photo. Our federal building was receiving bomb threats hourly and was being closed and then reopened in the days following the bombing. I saved the Time magazine with this photo on the cover for many years – it became almost an obligation to keep it. Now I understand that it was post traumatic stress – even though I wasn’t there. I wasn’t fearful for my life when these bomb threats came in like my colleagues were – I kept picturing this photo in my mind and thinking about this little girl. I’ll never forget her name – even now almost 13 years later. It was very touching to read the comments posted here and to learn about other parents who were so affected by Oklahoma City and this photo resulting in more than a few babies born who were named Baylee in honor of little Baylee Almon. This incident was the first national tragedy in my adult life (probably like my parents may have felt when President Kennedy was assassinated). Now my daughter is older and off to college. This morning I think about the families in Sandy Hook and remember what I felt like on that beautiful morning in 1995. The children in Sandy Hook were not that far out of babyhood. All that innocence. There is nothing so provane, so grotesque, so offensive as the murder of children.
I am thinking about the many families in our country who have small children and can related to this horrible, horrible tragedy. Something remains poignant though – none of these had to happen. SomeONE did these. I’m glad Aren Almon was able to move on, marry again and have children. But mostly I’m grateful she is able to find purpose in the senseless murder of her eldest daughter. -
Thanks so much for sharing Susan. Very thoughtful and moving comments. I don’t have children of my own yet, but I can appreciate how parents across the country must be struck by these senseless tragedies. In our own minds, we create mental images that haunt us. I think that this week’s shooting in Connecticut has reminded a lot of people of the Oklahoma City Bombing in the sense that it’s the last major American tragedy where so many little ones were lost. On Friday, this post had over 140 views, which is striking considering that it consistently averages 20, almost all of which are results of searches on Google so I do think that it’s natural to think back to Oklahoma City today. Not sure if that stat is going to be interesting to anyone.
Regardless, thanks again for posting. Very touching.
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thank you for this article…. I think of Baylee often…I will NEVER forget the photo…. the wee little socks…. all the babies in OK, have been on my mind alot this week….
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I think they’ve been on a lot of people’s minds. OK City was really the last major American tragedy when so many young kids were lost (although there were unfortunately some children on planes on 9/11).
Thanks for reading and thanks so much for sharing.
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Was just at home feeling sorry for myself after having a bad day, then i read your post, and it literally made me weep. Im here and that poor little angel isn.t. That picture moved me to tears, you are right when you say “A picture says a thousand words” It only seems like yesterday when that monster mcvey, murdered all those innocent people. Im from britain and i remember that day when the horror of that bombing came on the news, thankyou for the story, made me realise i don.t have anything to moan at.
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Happy 19th Birthday, Baylee. Thank you Josh for sharing her story and helping all of us remember those that were killed, Heros, or just in the city on that tragic day. Peace be with them and all those in or related to the recent events in Boston.
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Happy birthday indeed. Thanks for reading.
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I was a teenager living in Ponca City then. I was awe struck then and, this photo painted both a heroic and grizzly scene for me then. Now as an adult, with a son of my own and a little girl, just older than this precious child, this image I had all but forgotten brings on a whole new emotion being a parent.
Man, I need to go home, like right now and, give my kids a hug! May this angel watch over us all and, these everyday heroes be protected from harm.
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It’s an important reminder to us all about how precious and fragile life is. Thanks for sharing.
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Josh, well done article. You did your homework and got the real facts correct…thank you. I should know, I’m the Charles Porter who took the photo.
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I got married in 1995. I was pregnant in 1997 and my husband and I were so moved by that picture that we decided if we had a girl, her name would be Baylee to honor and memorialize those lost in that tragic event. Everyone we meet always asks how we came up with such a beautiful name, and I tell them the story, that we didn’t come up with it, we are just sharing it with that little baby. This December, we will be celebrating our Baylee’s 16 birthday! Happy Belated Birthday dear sweet little Baylee. You are forever remembered in our home.
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Look at little Baylee in that picture; she epitomizes vulnerability. It doesn’t take a super hero, an act of nature, super human forces or anything like that to destroy her. All it took was hate and ignorance. I can’t possibly understand a person would realize the consequences of such an act after the fact and be okay with that. I guess I never will understand.
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I was only 8 years old when this occurred, so my memories are mostly scattered, and most of my feelings relating to Oklahoma City and what it represented are more related to the years that followed than to the day itself. But while I don’t remember where I was when I heard about the bombing, I remember exactly what I was doing when I saw this picture. Maybe because I was so young myself and could perhaps relate to seeing a picture of a baby, this was the picture that has always stayed with me, and the first thing I think of when I hear about the bombing. That picture captured everything about the day.
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This is my second comment to this photograph. I receive notification of new comments posted and will always read what others feeling about this iconic photograph. I will always remember this photo as well as where I was when the Oklahoma City Federal Building was bombed. When I posted my first comment it was shortly after the children and their teachers of Sandy Hook Elementary School where gunned down. Today I’m thinking, again, of the many innocent victims and their grieving families killed in Washington DC/Navy Yard shooting. Are we going to become a nation defined by and of tragedies committed by our own citizens? I am tired of hearing of these killings. I’m afraid we are becoming de-sensitized to the almost daily violence in our society.
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I have just left the Oklahoma City Memorial. I am at a loss for words. When the attack happened I was like all of America, in shock. Seeing the picture of Baylee sent me into a crisis of faith. It took may years for me to get back. in those intervening years I began volunteering to build playgrounds. After my pastor spoke one day about good things coming out of bad I realized that I was building these playgrounds in memory of Baylee and for all of the children who do et to grow up. In the memorial I sought out information about Baylee and as I turned a corner I found the picture. It was heart wrenching. Seeing Baylee’s chair had me in tears along with the other 18 small chairs. This experience has only strengthened my resolve to get training and work towards full time playground building.
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