Josh Benner

Tag: life

  • Purdue super fan Tyler Trent passes away

    We don’t control the cards we’re dealt. All we can do is play what we have.

    Tyler Trent passed away on Tuesday.

    The Purdue student had battled a rare form of bone cancer. He had become a sensation in college football and Big Ten circles as being someone the Purdue football team rallied around this season. The hashtag #TylerStrong went viral.

    He inspired and encouraged people. He raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for cancer research. He wrote a book that he’d never be able to see completed, but which will also continue to raise money for cancer research.

    Tyler was also outspoken about the importance of his faith.

    In 2017, Tyler’s cancer returned and he began to pray that God would use this journey for His glory.”

    As I think about the impact he had over the last few months, it’s clear that this prayers was answered.

    In an interview with Today, Tyler said: “Waking up day to day is like winning a lottery…I try to rely on my faith in Jesus Christ and figure out how to have a good day.”

    As his battle continued, Tyler took to Twitter numerous time to glorify God.
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  • Best of 2018. #4 No matter how terrible things seem, the gospel shows that there is always hope

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    As 2018 comes to a close, I am sharing some of my top posts from this year. 

    Andrew Stoecklein was pastor of a megachurch in California who took his life last week. I’ve seen many stories shared about this man this week. I’ve seen articles about social media posts his wife has made in the wake of the loss of her husband.

    It’s an incredibly sad story. Successful young pastor. Growing megachurch. He had struggled with depression and anxiety. Stoecklein had actually taken a four month sabbatical as he was battling these mental health issues and had returned earlier this month. (more…)

  • A career of adversity: Drew Brees breaks NFL all time passing record

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    It’s incredible to think about what Drew Brees has accomplished on the football field. Last night, against the Washington Redskins, Brees became the NFL’s all time leader in career passing yards.

    Sports radio show host Colin Cowherd brought up some of the adversity he’s overcome in his opening monologue on today’s program.

    Injuries 

    In high school, he blew out his knee his junior year.

    As a senior, he only had two scholarship offers: Purdue and Kentucky, two schools known more for basketball than football.

    At Purdue, Brees put up incredible passing numbers. He’s still the all time passing leader in the Big Ten (and second all time in touchdown passes).

    Too small 

    Before coming into the NFL, Brees was considered undersized. He stood just 6 feet tall and came into the league at a time where a lot of prototypical quarterbacks were 6’3″ or bigger. But Brees was a trailblazer for future quarterbacks like Russell Wilson and Baker Mayfield.

    Better options 

    Brees was taken as the first pick of the second round of the 2001 NFL draft. He had a successful stint in San Diego before the Chargers drafted Phillip Rivers. Seeing the writing on the wall, Brees left San Diego after the 2004 season.

    Brees had his coach suspended for an entire season after the Bounty-gate scandal.

    Through all of that adversity, Brees kept plugging along.

    There are only nine 5,000 yard passing seasons in NFL history. Brees has five of them.

    You can accomplish anything in life if you’re willing to work for it.

    -Drew Brees

    Last night, when Brees broke the record, his wife and four children were on the field to celebrate with him. He told them “You can accomplish anything in life if you’re willing to work for it. Alright?”

    He knows it because he’s done it.

    There are a lot of excuses we can make: didn’t have the right parents, didn’t have the right connections, didn’t catch the right breaks.

    We have to respond to adversity by working hard, growing as people, learning from mistakes, and being opportunistic. It’s easier to make excuses than to take responsibility. It’s easier to settle than to strive to do great things.

    I think that’s why we should appreciate what Brees has accomplished. Because it’s a reminder to us all that you can accomplish anything in life if you’re willing to work for it.

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    Josh Benner is the associate pastor at Cornerstone Evangelical Free Church in Fergus Falls, Minnesota and has a Master of Divinity from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. He enjoys writing about faith and culture. He lives with his wife Kari in Minnesota.

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  • Life Lessons from Shark Tank

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    My wife and I are huge fans of the show Shark Tank where entrepreneurs make pitches for businesses, products, and technologies to a group of five wealthy investors (sharks). New season started last night.
    One of the things I appreciate about when entrepreneurs go into the tank is that the sharks don’t tolerate excuses.
    People are trying to get investments, generally in the hundreds of thousands of dollars, and the sharks aren’t charities. They’re trying to make investments that will make them money.
    There are a lot of lessons from Shark Tank that I think translate to life.
    Don’t make excuses 
    You name the excuse, people have made it in the Shark Tank.
    Many businesses have cited the economic downturn of 2008.
    Younger enterpeneruers have made the excuse of their youth and inexperience. While those might be legitimate reasons why, they don’t matter much to an investor.
    It’s one thing to have had adversity, but what have you done to overcome that and work through it? Grit matters.
    And that’s true of life as well. We have challenges. Some of us have greater challenges than others. We can have a run of unfortunate circumstances. You can sit back and whine about it or you can learn, keep grinding, keep growing, and keep working.
    Talk is cheap 
    It’s easy to say how great your idea is, how smart you are, how talented you are.
    You need to show it.
    Knowing when to quit 
    Sometimes there will be a business on Shark Tank and they’ve just had tons of issues, they haven’t made money. And it might be somewhat of a gimmicky product, not something that’s going to revolutionize the world.
    And the market has said no, people aren’t buying it, in spite of all of the efforts.
    Sharks have suggested people scrap their ideas before. And that can seem cold hearted.
    But there does come a time to cut your losses. One of the sharks, Kevin O’Leary once brought up the point that the more time they spend working on an idea that hasn’t worked, it’s taking away time where they could be working on something more fruitful.
    The wise thing isn’t always sticking with an idea or product until the bitter end.
    Listen! 
    I’ve seen many a business undone on Shark Tank because their owner didn’t want to listen. Sharks tell them what hasn’t worked, they want to argue. Sharks give advice, they want to get defensive. Sharks tell them something they could try, they want to dismiss it.
    That doesn’t come off well.
    Sharks have often cited that they feel like a person would be hard to deal with when saying “I’m out.”
    None of us knows all. It’s virtuous to have the humility to listen to what others have to say.
    Thanks for reading! I’d love to hear what you think, and don’t forget to subscribe! 
    Josh Benner is the associate pastor at Cornerstone Evangelical Free Church in Fergus Falls, Minnesota and has a Master of Divinity from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. He enjoys writing about faith and culture. He lives with his wife Kari in Minnesota.

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  • No matter how terrible things seem, the gospel shows that there is always hope

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    Andrew Stoecklein was pastor of a megachurch in California who took his life last week. I’ve seen many stories shared about this man this week. I’ve seen articles about social media posts his wife has made in the wake of the loss of her husband.

    It’s an incredibly sad story. Successful young pastor. Growing megachurch. He had struggled with depression and anxiety. Stoecklein had actually taken a four month sabbatical as he was battling these mental health issues and had returned earlier this month. (more…)