Josh Benner

Tag: relationships

  • Sometimes the “not my type” person is actually your type

    So you’ve had one relationship after another (after another) fail. You meet someone else. And they’re unlike the previous people you go for. “She’s not my type.” Maybe the people who you think are your type aren’t really your type. I’m not saying to be like George Costanza in Seinfeld and just do the opposite…

  • I hope your wedding day is the day you love each other the least

    I hope your wedding day is the day when you love each other the least. I hope the love is there. But I hope a week, a month, a year, 10 years, 50 years later, that you love each other more than you did on your wedding day. I hope it’s a deeper, richer, fuller…

  • Focus on being the right person, not finding the right person

    We live in a soulmate focused society. We love the idea of finding the one. As a millennial, perhaps it’s because our generation grew up with VHS and we were able to watch and rewatch and rewatch the same Disney movies over and over again, seeing the happily ever after. But in fairytales, we never actually…